[Hongik Principle] Importance of words

[Hongik Principle] Importance of words

 

[Hongik Principle] Importance of words

 

The most important thing in our lives is 'words'. If you were to find only one reason why life becomes difficult as an adult, what would be the answer? It is 'word' because words can be changed to flowers or words can be changed to poison. If I say something wrong, it definitely makes my life difficult. This is fundamental. If I talk wrongly with a person, my energy is blocked, and if I talk well, my energy with that person gets better through energy. That is why conversation methods are very important. If we look back carefully, who should the conversation be for, and if you do not do it for others, you will be speechless and lose your energy. Life becomes difficult for you and you feel stuck. Therefore, the basic center of the conversation should be for others. If I talk as I wish and the other person doesn't understand what I am saying, this is same as not being ready to say what I have said. Because I am not ready myself and I have been using words towards the other person, the other person doesn't understand what I am saying. This type of conversation is wrong. I have the right to talk to the other person, but if the other person doesn't accept what I am saying, it is their right, not mine. We may not be aware of this right now. When I talk, the other person misunderstands that they have to accept it. When I talk, it's up to the other person to judge what I have said and to understand and to decide whether to accept it or not. The ball went over to their court. What happens if the other person doesn't accept what I said? The energy I created by saying the words, comes back and hits me, and I experience difficulties. This makes it difficult for me. I start to get murky. Words are that important. Let's look back on the fact that humans can talk. Why is it that only humans can talk? What allowed humans to talk is what allowed them to deal with and exchange, and what allowed humans to talk for others. In other words, I am not talking for myself. But it is a very wrong principle to focus on myself when I'm talking. Let's give an example. The reason why the word water is said is to make the other person understand. If I am thirsty and feel like drinking water, I don't have to say the word "water."

 

[Hongik Principle] Importance of words

 

I can just drink it. If I live alone, I can just act right away without saying anything, and there is no need for any word to exist at all. Words are needed for others and writings are needed for others. If you don't speak for others, everything becomes difficult because you're using it for yourself. So if I talk and the other person doesn't understand me, it means I am not equipped with myself and I am facing the other person before being ready to talk for them. Obviously, no matter what kind of mind the other person has, whether this person feels bad or curses at me, this is my doing and not the other person's fault. It happens to the other person because I committed the fault. You have to be careful in conveying the meaning of what you are saying to the other person. You have to interact with the other person as much as you can. If you don't and what you said is wrong, the arrow returns to you and creates difficulties for you. That's why we're experiencing so many difficulties nowadays. That's how important it is to say this. If we can't solve these things and catch them correctly, the difficulties will continue.